We are taught to do the research before we pick a college, buy a car or purchase a home.  When it comes to finding a significant other, we do a credit check, background check, social media check but hardly an astrology check.

I prefer to keep astrology at a distance. Close enough for it to makes sense, but far away enough that I’m not obsessed with it. However, I am convinced that when it comes to dating, it is important to do a quick google comparison before you even get out of go.

I was told a long time ago by a friend to make sure I found a Leo lover. As a fire sign, I am most compatible with other fire signs like Leo and Libra. I don’t know where Mr. Leo has been hiding, but I’ve dated two Tauruses, a Libra, one scorpio and now an Aquarius. My compatibility with each of them is just as I read. I fell in love with both Tauruses, Mr. Libra was cool but a lying scumbag, and I consider my lovely scorpio a best friend.  Now this Aquarius experience is something I have never known.

As Astrology Zodiac Signs suggest, our relationship is both stressful and exciting. I almost have to laugh because the compatibility description is again extremely accurate — Aquarius will not stand for ridiculous conflicts and will build a brick wall somewhere between them if needed. Still, they usually tear it down at the end of the day, for they cherish each other the way they are after all.

My laughing completely ended when I continued to extensively read my relationship on a random website that didn’t know me or my man. Now I am thinking, “hold up ,wait a minute, is this stuff actually for real, for real? “In order for Aquarius to awaken their emotional nature, it usually takes a partner with enough flexibility and patience to get there,” the comparison continues, “ We wouldn’t exactly say that Aries is patient, so you can imagine the problem that could appear.“

That right, I am an Aries (yes the first zodiac). He has asked me to be patient and when I’m going really slow to the point where I’m miming, it’s just normal speed to everyone else. Hints my weaknesses are impatient, moody, short tempered, impulsive and aggressive. My strengths are defined as courageous, confident, optimistic, passionate and honest.  This description is not just accurate but defines me to perfection. In fact, I get on my own nerves dealing with my weaknesses and pump chest because my strengths.

Anyways, so here I am faced with this guy I absolutely love but tortures my soul for this very reason:“This is not a conscious need, but Aries can be like a spoiled child wanting things (and people) all for themselves. So with Aquarius changing direction as the wind and never changing their nature, Aries can find themselves truly unhappy for they want someone to share everything with, not only what the wind carries in.”

Shut the front door, I need to take a moment of pause to finger snap.

Now I’m thinking, I should have read our compatibility before I fell for him. (I know am putting my business on full blast but this is for the sake of research, the freedom of speech and to make dating a breeze for all of us.)  At this point my palms are sweating and I am on the verge of tears accepting my relationship is doomed. But then I got to the summary, “With them as a partner, there is always room for an enlightening scenario that leaves all things to free will. In case they decide to share their lives together, they should have a screaming room they could individually visit once in a while. This would probably do the trick. And about that lack of emotion, they could just put in a lot of physical tenderness to begin with and let things go from there.”

A sigh of relief came over me to know there is a God and that hope still exist.

I would not suggest you use this website to determine who to date, but to figure out how you can best date a person. You will generate all the positive vibrations you need to propel your relationship to where you want it to be with the right synergy. At the end of the day, you have dominion over your body and how you treat each others.

As for myself, I am going to look into taking kickboxing or something until I can afford that screaming room.

Comment and let me know about your dating compatibility hits or misses!

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